Getting Back Together

You know when we're separated with someone we love, its hard to handle. I mean with all the feelings that is going on inside us and around us. Its like everything is out of control.

And there is at some point, one of you think of wanting to get back together but it just never happens. Why? Why didn't it happen? Is something stopping you from making that happen? This sort of things I know is hard to decide and there is this one saying that I've hold on to if things like this or may be some other hard life decisions I have to make / take ( which ever comes first ) happens I'll think of this - " if it's meant to be, than it's meant to be " but at a certain point this sort of saying doesn't work and we have to make things as our own choices as like reality is that sort of situation. ( am i making sense here? hopefully i am ) .

If one of you  BOTH of you still do love each other, why are you holding to that decision on not wanting to be together ? I mean there must be a reason why neither of you are not with anyone right now or may be one of you is with someone but things are just not the same.

What I do know is that in a relationship , everything seems simple and easy but the reality of it as we all know is that, it's difficult. I mean to get that bond going on and to make that love stronger everyday is a challenge but that is the beauty of it . The beauty of going to every challenge together. Sometimes every fight seems so hurtful but if you're in the right place and the love is there , Insya'allah nothing is wrong . It takes both people to make it work .

In a long distance relationship its way way difficult. I mean its 2x the stress and pressure because there is just a lot of trust issues or may be insecurities or etc going on, in one of you or may be both of your minds and I understand that. I've been there but things won't stay long if that happens. Be honest with each other. I know the rate of  "missing-ness " is quite high , that is for sure i guess because you don't see each other often and this happens . Like i said its a challenge.